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Leadership Education Class
The Education of a Wandering Man: Louis L’Amour Autobiography - Education is life long persuitLeadership and Self-Deception - How to improve personal relationships
How to Win Friends and Influence People in the New Digital Age - Gaining trust and following
The JackRabbit Factor - Law of attraction and law of harvest
The Dream Giver - Follow our dreams
Mindset - How we view the world, whether a fixed mindset or growth mindset
Important Words
1. Research the words before class. Read the attached articles.
2. Discuss during class. Share ideas and insights. Take notes.
3. After class, answer the questions for each word, and write down what we discussed, plus any new additional information.
4. Find the definition and write it under the word.
5. On the words required, please give three examples of how the word is applied to the world. (Ex. abstract ideas - love, God, etc.)
Abstract Ideas
What are they? Are real? What are some examples? Can you really believe in something you cannot see? Can you see, feel, taste, smell or hear abstract ideas?Agency
Blessing or Curse? Find 4 scriptures to support your view. Write a three paragraph statement as to why you believe that agency is either a curse or a blessing.Classics
What are classics? Is there a set list of classics? What role do they play in people’s lives? Should we study them?“A classic is a book which peolpe praise and don't read." - Mark Twain
Civilization
What is it? How many have there been since the dawn of recorded human history? What’s the difference between a society, nation, and civilization?Dreams
A couple of weeks ago, my wife texted me, “Don’t forget to buy Megamillions tickets!:)”Upon learning of the $656 million jackpot, we couldn’t help ourselves from fantasizing about a potential windfall. We’d quit our jobs. Pursue our dreams. Finally, we’d do what we loved.
When the lottery numbers were drawn, ours, of course, did not come up.
I like my job, but other creative passions run deep that I don’t have the luxury of pursuing. There are bills to pay, after all. And tuitions. And the ever-looming threat of retirement. Providing financial security to my family is important.
But facing the other side of fifty, I often find myself thinking hard about the choices stacked up against the years I have left. I wonder, what would it be like to run full throttle towards the things I really love doing—writing, for instance, or other creative endeavors?
Why not risk it all and pursue what I love? Isn’t that what God wants for me?
It’s one thing to dabble (which I do), but my little vocational fantasies could hardly replace my income. Pursuing one's creative dreams may sound glamorous, but the reality is that the top of the economic pyramid for those in the arts is so tiny, with the vast majority of talented people planted firmly at the lower-echelon base.
The difference between doing what’s important and doing what you want is that the important stuff is usually harder. It’s not so much fun. It generally won’t fulfill all of your deepest personal longings. Working a boring job to provide your family with financial security often gets a bad rap from motivational wonks who would have us drop everything to pursue our dreams, but I believe there’s something valiant, even noble about it.
Some mistake their desire for creative expression as a divine calling from God. Don’t even get me started on this. God never guaranteed that all of our deepest career fantasies would be fulfilled like an American Idol episode. There is no magical, theological formula for forging your vocation. You just have to figure it out like the billions of people who went before you. All I know is that shirking family responsibilities to chase some fantastical dream is immature and self-centered.
And by the way, there’s no guarantee that your “dream job” would have led to any more happiness or fulfillment or financial freedom than what you already have right now. Plenty of people have traded in the corporate drudgery for their passions, only to find themselves on a different treadmill, with a lot less security. I think Oscar Wilde was on to something when he said, "It is better to have a steady income than to be fascinating."
Perhaps I’m copping out, or putting a giant damper on things—but someone has to lift up the value and significance of showing up every day, being responsible, doing your job and taking care of business. There’s something strong, solid, and respectable about it.
So stay at your dull job, give it your best shot, and save the music gigs for the weekends. You never know—the path of greatest significance may be right there in front of you, if you give it enough attention.
by Bradley J. Moore
Education
“The idea of education has been so tied to schools, universities, and professors that many assume there is no other way, but education is available to anyone within reach of a library, post office, or even a newsstand.” ~ Louis L’Amour“We know education does not end with our schooling or training – it is a lifelong process therefore everyone must continue to learn.” ~ Dr. Akanisi
Families
Gospel
Habits
Pioneer wagon wheels cut eternal ruts in plains and rocks across the American west.Likewise, your habits forge irreversible patterns in your brain as you migrate toward your eternal destiny.
Free will comes with the shackles of consequence.
Choose your actions you may, but consequences are unavoidable and non-negotiable.
And no consequential shackles are as unyielding and unforgiving as the power of habit.
Charles Duhigg's recent life-changing book, The Power of Habit, details the science behind how habits form and how to change them, including the following six inescapable laws:
Law #1: Habits Can Never Be Eradicated
Close to the center of your skull lies a golf ball-sized lump of tissue called the basal ganglia.
Your basal ganglia is the western plains under your wagon wheels of habit. Its job is to store habits even while the rest of your brain goes to sleep.
Science has proven that repeated habits become ingrained into your basal ganglia forever.
Your brain is programmed to constantly find new ways to save effort. Writes Duhigg,
"This process within our brains is a three-step loop. First, there is a cue, a trigger that tells your brain to go into automatic mode and which habit to use. Then there is the routine, which can be physical or mental or emotional. Finally, there is a reward, which helps your brain figure out if this particular loop is worth remembering for the future.
"Over time, this loop--cue, routine, reward; cue, routine, reward--becomes more and more automatic. The cue and reward become intertwined until a powerful sense of anticipation and craving emerges. Eventually...a habit is born."
Once born, no habit will ever die. As MIT scientist Ann Graybiel says,
Law #2: Habits Erode Free Will
If this paragraph doesn't arrest your attention like a slap to the face, you're not listening:
Understand that this can work to your salvation, or your damnation.
There are some choices you only want to make once. Good habits form a life of automatic, programmed goodness and protect you from poor choices in compromising situations.
The longer bad habits operate, the harder they are to break--in fact, the less you even think about breaking them.
Law #3: Habits Can Only Change Form; To Change Your Habits, Shift Your Routine
Try as you may, for any given habit, the cues and rewards will never change. They are forever hard-wired into your brain.
What you can do, however, is change the routine in response to the cue, which leads to the reward.
The trick is to leverage your brain's power of habit in your favor, like Jujitsu, rather than fighting against it with sheer willpower.
Learn to give your brain the same rewards it perceives from bad habits through new, positive routines.
To work, a positive routine shift must actually provide the same level of satisfaction as a bad habit.
Law #4: Habits are Easier to Change with a Support Group
Writes Duhigg,
"But that's not enough. For a habit to stay changed, people must believe change is possible. And most often, that belief only emerges with the help of a group...
"The evidence is clear: If you want to change a habit, you must find an alternative routine, and your odds of success go up dramatically when you commit to changing as part of a group."
Law #5: Focus on Keystone Habits for Widespread Change
"Keystone habits," says Duhigg, are seemingly small and simple habits, but which can catalyze a ripple effect and have a major impact on every aspect of your life.
One such keystone habit is exercise. As Duhigg explains,
James Prochaska, a researcher at the University of Rhode Island, adds,
Law #6: Write Down Your Plans for Dealing with Temptation & Obstacles
Studies have routinely shown that people who anticipate and write down how they will react to temptations and obstacles when striving to overcome a habit are much more successful than those who do not.
Writing your plan down makes you more conscious of your cues, and helps you focus on your rewards. It also strengthens your willpower.
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American pioneers, drawn irresistibly by Manifest Destiny, left their mark upon the plains.
Your habits will manifest your destiny, and determine the mark you leave.
As William James wrote,
Written by Stephen Palmer
History
Does it repeat itself? Why do we study it? Do you honestly care what some dead person did 300 years ago? How can we apply it to ourselves? What role should the past have in today’s society? How do we change a whole culture?“What I really wanted was to get to know myself better through {my grandparents}. After all, their history is my history, their lives a part of mine, where I grew up, who my parents were. But we can’t expect the past to define our future completely. Our ancestors’ lives and lessons may teach and guide, but we are the ones who must make choices.”
Gleiser, Marcelo, The Prophet and the Astronomer, 2001, page 4
Human Nature
Inflation
Influence
Language
Leaders
Leaders are not, as we are often led to think, people who go along with huge crowds following them. Leaders are people who go their own way without caring, or even looking to see, whether anyone is following them. "Leadership qualities" are not the qualities that enable people to attract followers, but those that enable them to do without them. They include, at the very least, courage, endurance, patience, humor, flexibility, resourcefulness, stubbornness, a keen sense of reality, and the ability to keep a cool and clear head, even when things are going badly. True leaders, in short, do not make people into followers, but into other leaders."~John Holt, Teach Your Own
Lyrics
Look Through My Eyes by Phil Collins
There are things in life you'll learn and
In time you'll see
Cause out there somewhere
It's all waiting
If you keep believing
So don't run, don't hide
It will be all right
You'll see, trust me
I'll be there watching over you
Just take a look through my eyes
There's a better place
somewhere out there
Just take a look through my eyes
Everything changes
You'll be amazed what you'll find
If you look through my eyes
There will be times on this journey
All you'll see is darkness
Out there somewhere daylight finds you
If you keep believing
So don't run, don't hide
It will be all right
You'll see, trust me
I'll be there watching over you
Just take a look through my eyes
There's a better place
somewhere out there
Just take a look through my eyes
Everything changes
You'll be amazed what you'll find
If you look through my eyes
All the things that you can change
There's a meaning in everything
And you will find all you need
There's so much to understand
Just take a look through my eyes
There's a better place
somewhere out there
Just take a look through my eyes
Everything changes
You'll be amazed what you'll find
If you look through my eyes
Take a look through my eyes
American Pie
A long long time agoI can still remember how
That music used to make me smile
And I knew if I had my chance
That I could make those people dance
And maybe they'd be happy for a while
But February made me shiver
With every paper I'd deliver
Bad news on the doorstep
I couldn't take one more step
I can't remember if I cried
When I read about his widowed bride
But something touched me deep inside
**The day the music died**
So
[Chorus]
Bye, bye Miss American Pie
Drove my Chevy to the levee but the levee was dry
Them good ole boys were drinking whiskey in Rye
Singin' this'll be the day that I die
This'll be the day that I die
Did you write the book of love
And do you have faith in God above
If the Bible tells you so?
Now do you believe in rock and roll?
Can music save your mortal soul?
And can you teach me how to dance real slow?
Well, I know that you're in love with him
Cause I saw you dancin' in the gym
You both kicked off your shoes
Man, I dig those rhythm and blues
I was a lonely teenage broncin' buck
With a pink carnation and a pickup truck
But I knew I was out of luck
The day the music died
I started singin'
[Chorus]
Now, for ten years we've been on our own
And moss grows fat on a rolling stone
But, that's not how it used to be
When the jester sang for the king and queen
In a coat he borrowed from James Dean
And a voice that came from you and me
Oh and while the king was looking down
The jester stole his thorny crown
The courtroom was adjourned
No verdict was returned
And while Lenin read a book on Marx
The quartet practiced in the park
And we sang dirges in the dark
The day the music died
We were singin'
[Chorus]
Helter skelter in a summer swelter
The birds flew off with a fallout shelter
Eight miles high and falling fast
It landed foul on the grass
The players tried for a forward pass
With the jester on the sidelines in a cast
Now the half-time air was sweet perfume
While sergeants played a marching tune
We all got up to dance
Oh, but we never got the chance
Cause the players tried to take the field
The marching band refused to yield
Do you recall what was revealed
The day the music died?
We started singin'
[Chorus]
Oh, and there we were all in one place
A generation lost in space
With no time left to start again
So come on Jack be nimble, Jack be quick
Jack Flash sat on a candlestick
Cause fire is the devil's only friend
And as I watched him on the stage
My hands were clenched in fists of rage
No angel born in Hell
Could break that Satan's spell
And as the flames climbed high into the night
To light the sacrificial rite
I saw Satan laughing with delight
The day the music died
He was singin'
[Chorus]
I met a girl who sang the blues
And I asked her for some happy news
But she just smiled and turned away
I went down to the sacred store
Where I'd heard the music years before
But the man there said the music wouldn't play
And in the streets the children screamed
The lovers cried, and the poets dreamed
But not a word was spoken
The church bells all were broken
And the three men I admire most-
the Father, Son, and the Holy Ghost-
They caught the last train for the coast
The day the music died
And they were singing
Money
Morals
Nation
What makes a nation?Occupation
Praise
Don't expect applause
Accept applause, sure, please do.
But when you expect applause, when you do your work in order to receive (and because of) applause, you have sold yourself short. That's because your work is depending on something out of your control. You have given away part of your art. If your work is filled with the hope and longing for applause, it's no longer your work--the dependence on approval has corrupted it, turned it into a process where you are striving for ever more approval.
Who decides if your work is good? When you are at your best, you do. If the work doesn't deliver on its purpose, if the pot you made leaks or the hammer your forged breaks, then you should learn to make a better one. But we don't blame the nail for breaking the hammer or the water for leaking from the pot. They are part of the system, just as the market embracing your product is part of marketing.
"Here, here it is, it's finished."
If it's finished, the applause, the thanks, the gratitude are something else. Something extra and not part of what you created. To play a beautiful song for two people or a thousand is the same song, and the amount of thanks you receive isn't part of that song.
Prayer
Is it rote? Even when we try to change up prayer, we still use rote phrases. Why?
Matthew 6:5-15
5 ¶And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.
6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.
7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.
8 Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.
9 After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.
10 Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.
11 Give us this day our daily bread.
12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.
14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:
15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
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